To honor my sons wishes, from now on I will try very hard not to bring up any ex issues I may be having. He was the one most hurt by actions beyond our control. I can control the hurt from my side and will excercise that right to protect him above all else.
Oh, he let me know I could tell every one I'm a good stepmom. It's now on record and he can never ever take it back.
I love you Tanner, more than you will ever know!